Do you find making decisions stressful?
If you are making a decision, on what basis are you making it?
On the basis of your own needs?
Other people's needs, what you want, what they want?
Making decisions will be very stressful if your basis is unclear
Your own decisions need to be on the basis of what you need or want (not others!)
If the decision effects others then include their needs and wants in the decision
If the decision is on behalf of others then focus on their needs and wants
Remember you can't make a decision for yourself based on other people's needs or wants, it needs to be made on the basis of your own needs and wants!!
Barbara x
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