Barbara's Daily Message - Self Forgiveness

Living in the light its easier to focus on others

Treat others with positive calm and loving compassion

But what about yourself?

Do you treat yourself with positive calm and loving compassion?

If you get something wrong do you accept, learn and forgive yourself?

Or do you criticise yourself and add it to the long list of experiences you think you should have done better?

Living in this world is not about being perfect

Its all about learning and growing

This is only possible through making mistakes and learning for next time

Love learning and growing

Love, accept and forgive yourself... always

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - be free

Let yourself be free

Let the light support you

Welcome love, passion and joyful adventure into your life

With a life bathed in light.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Leaving a Legacy

When our life has left this planet

What do you want to be known for?

How do you want to be remembered?

Take some time now to think of your top 3 things

It might be a loving, caring, free spirit

Or a charasmatic and motivational leader

Or a good mum and friend

Whatever it is, check that where you are heading matches the legacy you want to leave behind

Then you will know that you are being the person you want to be, today.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Peace in this World

Peace at last, peace in our world

This is our goal

To bring peace to all people and all interactions wherever they maybe

To achieve this we all need to promote peace

We can all contribute to world peace

Through a daily "peace contribution"

Send love and peace to the world everyday

To boost the global peace "energy bank"

Giving more positive energy to be shared amongst those who need it.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Choose

When life is turning on the spot

Waiting to choose a direction

Will you get off and choose your own direction

Or will you wait until you are thrown off

The light wants you to choose your path

And make your way compatible with the light

The light wants you to enjoy your time, your actions, your life

This brings a depth of positivity to the world for all to share

Every one of our actions taken when aligned with the light fills the well of creation with positive spiritual energy

Which transforms this world

Fill her up, share and transform.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - the light

The light shares many things

It is the source of many things:

Energy, destiny, experiences, kindred spirits, synchronicity, soul development...

All peace and chaos is brought to the melting pot of earth

To enable our souls to experience journeys of life within ourselves and the value of peace within the world around us

The light's goal is to bring the earth back into balance and to maintain balance

So everything can live in harmony together

And us?

To live in balance and harmony with our world and everything in it and to share peace, live and compassion with all.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Everyday Life

How does living with the light work in an everyday life?

Sometimes it isn't different and sometimes it is

Life continues as normal, this doesn't change - you don't suddenly wake up somewhere else

But life changes on a day to day, moment by moment basis

Things that fit your path become easier, guides and help appear in your life as needed

And you slowly but surely steer your life towards your purpose and calling over time.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Staying with Change

When we decide and make changes we feel better

We feel ownership and control over our own lives

But sometimes they don't stay changed

Why do some changes manage to stick and not others?

Changes that are easy or life is easier with them, we tend to stick with and we get used to them

Changes that are big or a significant behavioural change require a lot of energy to do

These have a higher failure rate

Its simple really, easy to understand

As soon as we get tired, stressed or busy we don't have enough energy to keep them going

So break down the big change into smaller steps

When you get tired if you do at least one of the steps that is still success

And you can stay on your path.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Balance

When the sun is out we tend to feel so much better

Why?

Bright sunshine, warmth, energy from the sun

That energy not only helps plants to grow but us to grow, feel better and energise us

Put the sun to good use

But remember that you can also have too much of a good thing

Balance is also required

Sun, water, rest

Bring them together for an energised balanced.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Running on Empty?

Ever feel like you are running on empty?

Running the road you are on without an end in sight

Or a rest stop?

Have you got so used to putting everyone else first you've forgotten yourself?

Do a quick self scan:

Check in with yourself - how tired are you, how busy or energetic or stressed/frazzled are you?

If you tending towards the top end of these scales it is probably affecting your health, choices, decisions and personality (even if you think it isn't)

Take the opportunity now to take stock

Stop filling your time with "stuff" and put yourself first

Are you arguing? I can't or I've got to...

Remember you can't support everyone else without supporting and looking after yourself

Start with just 10-20mins a day of active relaxation/chill out time*, it will make a difference and increase the time gradually.

Barbara x

*Active relaxation/chill out: e.g. meditation, tai chi, gentle exercise like walking, yoga, etc.

Passive relaxation doesn't count: watching tv, playing on the computer, etc.

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Barbara's Daily Message - Our Natural Selves

Living in the light needs us to be our natural selves

True to ourselves and our true nature

Not bent to meet our own will or expectations or those of others

Are you self- critical, dismissive or judgemental?

To be our true selves, to reflect our true nature

We need to accept ourselves, accept our own needs, be inwardly compassionate and non judgemental

Then we can enjoy being our true selves

Barbara x

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Tweet from Dalai Lama (@DalaiLama)

Dalai Lama (@DalaiLama) tweeted at 10:55 AM on Tue, Jun 18, 2013:

"Genuine peace is based on inner peace, because you cannot build peace on the basis of anger."

(https://twitter.com/DalaiLama/status/346929171336925184)

Barbara x

Barbara's Daily Message - Eating Elephants

How do you eat an elephant?

One bite at a time

Are you fond of eating elephants? No?!

Where does this analogy also apply?

Aligning your life to one that lives in the light

Once we've decided, it won't be an instant transition, although we would like it to be.

Change never is

Take steps to align your wants, needs, activities and decision making everyday

Accept the ups and downs, successes and learnings

Keep taking steps and action in the right direction

Be kind and compassionate to yourself when it doesn't work

Learn and keep taking the steps

Take one step at a time, live one day at a time...

You are here for life not just today!

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Share

Bring joy, peace and love to this world

Make your place in the world better

Bring love, peace and joy to your friends, family, colleagues and to friends you haven't met yet

Share the best of yourself with others

So they can share your joy, love and peace

And pass your light on to others to help them share

Share so others can enjoy and pass on the privilege...

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Living in the Light

While living in the light isn't free of the everyday hassles of living
If you listen and envelop yourself in the energy and philosophy of the light

Your life will become calmer and more focused on the important aspects

Giving you a more relaxing, rewarding, enjoyable life

Engage and enjoy.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Be Reasonable To Yourself

Why do we over do it?

Push too hard, do too much?

Why can't we accept our own limitations

And look after ourselves?
Are we trying to prove something (to somebody)?

Or are we trying to sabotage ourselves?

Remember everyone is of equal importance and value, that includes each one of us

And each one of us doesn't need to prove, beat or sacrifice ourselves for someone else

Whoever said live life to the full didn't mean live an over filled and overstretched life

Love yourself, be OK with yourself and be reasonable to yourself.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Roads Most Travelled By

Every person is valued and accepted by the light

Whatever the circumstances, situation or character

Each of us have travelled many roads of life to where we are today

If you find yourself in an unexpected place in life

Look at the roads you travelled by

And consider where you want the next part of your journey to take you

Ask the light to help you

So you can meet the needs of your self, your soul and your spirit on your onward journey.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Are you scared of something?

Are you scared of something?

Why?

Is your fear founded or is it a spark from your imagination fuelled into fire by the unknown?

Unreal or out of proportion fears can rule our lives

Prevent us from doing what we want when we want

It saps our personal strength and self confidence

But this isn't because we are weak or incapable

Its because we're not facing our fears

Define what you are afraid of and why

Really examine why, ask why, why and why, drill down to the underlying reason

Then ask yourself if its a real reason or a myth

If its myth let it go,

If its real face it and work out what you would do if it happened to lesson and overcome the fear

Face your fears, unlock your reasons and pass through them.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Choices

When we start out in life

We don't know where we are going

We make choices and decisions that affect our path and direction in life

Today, while we may still not know our direction we can ensure we make our choices based on love, compassion, truth, peace and a consideration of those it affects

This way we continue with life while staying true to the light and ourselves.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Life Discovery

Working for the light is part of the journey of life discovery

The light can direct and promote actions which help individuals, groups and the planet get better

We can all have a role with the light

For example, anything from making people happy, keeping them entertained to protecting and supporting people, animals, environment and our communities...

Have a think about how you could be involved

And then follow your heart.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Love Life

Love life

Love light

Keep the light in your life

A constant companion whenever and wherever you need help and support

Enjoy peace, support, love and compassion when you and the light are on your path.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Making Mistakes

Do you find yourself making the same mistakes?

Do you get frustrated that you keep making them?

Have you given yourself time to think about what you need to learn or change?

Or do you need to be more accepting of yourself?

Or all of the above?

Making mistakes is an opportunity in disguise

An opportunity to improve ourselves

Accept, learn and continue making mistakes

Its shows we are progressing on our paths.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - self love

In theory, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be prettier, taller, stronger or slimmer

Until it takes over your focus, your actions, your goals or even your inner desires

Or you think you've accepted yourself but deep down you still want to be the prettiest, tallest, strongest or slimmest girl or boy in class.

If you are hiding an inner criticism of your imperfections it is time to get them out

Air them

Really

And then look at them

And ask yourself one question:

If you achieved this degree of perfection you were after what real impact would it have on your life?

Generally, none in the medium - long term as it won't make you feel better

Because most people will just go and find another self critical point!

Remember, the important people in your life love you for who you are warts and all

And you love the important people in your life warts and all

So why not drop the overzealous self critical evaluation

And love yourself warts and all

Then you really will feel better for it

Much love

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Life's a Beach!

Life's a beach, didn't you know?

Life is an opportunity for our souls to go out and explore reality

See the physical side of life

It may not feel like a beach to everybody, everyday

But we're here to learn and develop

If you recognise that the things that happen happen for this reason

As part of the plan to develop ourselves

You'll start to replace your "problems" and "challenges" with "opportunities"!

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Our World

This one world is made from many worlds

7 billion worlds altogether and counting

Live your world first

Change your world first

Make it your place to live through love, peace, truth, compassion and destiny

Then share these principles with others and their worlds when you meet!

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - fan the winds of change

Do you feel the winds of change blowing through the air

In the UK we're going through the equivalent of an honesty amnesty (although without getting away with)

Finally we're getting the hang of saying "not acceptable behaviour".

And it goes across class, race and culture

Its relief for a pocket of humanity

But what about other countries?

We can all help the winds of change in other pockets of the world e.g. Russia, China, North Korea, Syria, Middle East, Africa

Send love, truth, peace and compassion to the leaders and people of these countries

And then add a dose of empathy so they start to see the true meaning and impact of their actions on others.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Our Life Goal

How do we fit in on this planet?

What is our goal in life?

To live of course!

To live, to experience, to be

We are here as part of the balance of the ecosystem

To play our part in the development of this world and ourselves

To take forward what we are and to grow

And to help others do the same on their journey.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - Holidays

When a holiday comes along how do you spend it?

Catching up on chores

Working anyway, got stuff to finish

Stressing about what isn't done

Enjoying yourself

Relaxing and spending fun time with family and friends

Its so easy to get sucked into doing and finishing stuff

We have become so focused on doing that we've forgotten that we are here to live first

Be in contact with life

Take frequent and regular time out

Relax, enjoy yourself and your life.

Barbara x

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Barbara's Daily Message - frustrations

Do you like "your lot" in life?

Like the hand you've been dealt?

If no, how can you live and share the peace, honesty and openness of the light?

If you are frustrated, hurt, upset, lost, with "your lot" in life

How can you enjoy peace, truth and connection with others?

Take some time to evaluate your inner frustrations?

Look at what you can change, if anything

And if you can't change it, find a more neutral, less emotionally charged, way of looking at the situation

And then, be thankful you have "a lot" in life.

Barbara x

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